Dating with Purpose Podcast

Send us Fan Mail S1 E4 — What to Ask on Early Dates (Without Interviewing Him)Season: 1 Episode: 4 Length: ~31 min Episode Summary Some of us show up to first dates with 17 questions and the energy of an assistant principal running an investigation. Others leave knowing his favorite vacation spot and nothing about his character. 🙃 In this episode, we find the middle: the conversation doors that tell you who he really is, how to listen beneath ordinary answers, and a simple after-date reflect...

Send us Fan Mail Show Notes: S1 E3 — Girl, Stop Filling in the Blanks for HimSeason: 1 Episode: 3 Length: ~26 min Episode Summary He told you he wasn't ready for anything serious, and you heard, "He just hasn't met a woman like me yet." Ask me how I know. 🙃 In this episode, I get honest about the relationship where I financed hope, nodded along to keep the peace, and dated the version of him I'd created in my head. Then I hand you a simple three-column exercise to separate what he said ...

Send us Fan Mail Show Notes: S1 E1 — Are You Dating for a Good Time or a Good Husband? Season: 1 Episode: 1 Length: ~21 min --------------------------------------------------------------- Episode Summary You've built the career, the condo, and a life full of good things, so why is marriage still on the "someday" list? In our very first episode, we're sorting your husband checklist into preferences and marriage qualifications, and I'm telling you about the smooth-as-butter club man who tossed...

Send us Fan Mail Show Notes: S1 E2 — He Says He's a Christian, But How Do You Know? Season: 1 Episode: 2 Length: ~18 min -------------------------------------------------------------- Episode Summary He's fine, he's funny, he has a good job, and he told you he's a Christian. But fam, how much of what you believe about him came from him describing himself, and how much have you actually seen? In this episode, I walk you through PROOF, my framework for looking past what a man says about his fai...

Send us Fan Mail You're done dating just to date — you want a real marriage. Welcome to Dating with Purpose, the faith-based dating show for women in their 30s who are ready to stop choosing by chemistry, checklists, and vibes, and start choosing wisely. Host Lessa Davis breaks down why "he had potential" keeps leading nowhere — and what changes when you choose character over chemistry, faith over feelings, and purpose over pressure. This trailer is your introduction to the show. New episodes...